Girl: Why do you like me..? Why do you love me?
Man: I cant tell the reason.. but I really like you
..
Girl: You cant even tell me the reason... how can you
say you like me? How can you say you love me?
Man: I really dont know the reason, but I really love
you. maybe for others you are not beautiful, but my feeling loves u!
Girl: No! I want you to tell me the reason. My
friends boyfriend can tell her why he loves her but
not you!
Man: Ok.. ok!!! Because my feeling said you are beautiful, because
it said your voice is sweet, because it said you are caring, because
you are loving, because you are thoughtful, because
of your smile, because of your every movements..
Unfortunately, a few days later, the girl found something on her email box.
Dearest,
Because of your sweet voice that I love you...
Now,
can you talk? No! Therefore I cannot love you.
Because of your care and concern that I like you..
Now that you cannot show them, therefore I cannot love
you.
Because of your smile, because of your every movements
that I love you..
Now can you smile? Now can you move? No,
therefore I cannot love you...
If love needs a reason, like now , there is no reason
for me to love you anymore.
Does love need a reason? Never! Therefore,
I still love you... and will love u forever ! My feelings force me to do so!
~*~
Is it True Love? is the Man true Lover?
Tell me, why do you love me?
Why is anyone falling in love? Of course there must be something drawing out their attention. There’s something beautiful, something comfortable, and maybe joyful at something of love object. Therefore, it often the dominant desire affecting. The basic character of the appetite is really tend to anything worldly, and this world is completely could fulfill the needs of love even when it was just in a moment and complete deceit. The lack of faith human will often deceived, gaining all of their love and careless about the consequence in hereafter. Human who strongly in faith thinking future beyond the hereafter, not simply tempted by the whisper of worldly love. He or she is hereafter oriented. Rasulullah’s utterance: the well-educated people is the one who always introspecting themselves and doing activity for the sake of life after death.
Ask to them who have ever been in love with the opponent sex. What are causing they fell in love? Through a number of peoples, could be they will answer in variously reasons. Ask to yourself, so the answer possibly different, and all the answers where exactly right. And don’t be disappointed, if actually you haven’t ever been in love to your opponent, because it was a good achievement. Let the “energy” of your love resourced—at the right time, motivation and holy aim, to assist your holy assignment in this life.
Ask them why they’re falling in love, exactly because one of this reason following. Because the enchantment of appearance (lil-jamal), because of the intelligence (lid-dzaka’), good behavior (lis-suluk), the wealth (lil-ghina), because of the obligation and services (lil-ihsan), and there also because almost together every time (lithulil-muasyarah) or maybe because the other reason.
If that all were the trigger of love and this was just a humane, what a pity if love was just given to the imperfect with the lacks are everywhere. Isn’t the beauty won’t fade away in a row of time, isn’t the wealth won’t last forever, and the things you are considered to be special in anyone soul must have a limit? Is deceived, if you fight till the end loving anyone because of the pre-mentioned reasons, meanwhile to Allah who have had those perfect you are tended to take a space or minimally seems not to care to Him.
Study the nature, from everything to understand love. Included learn from a love-drunk people. They said, if anyone was falling in love, he/she will always remember about her/his beloved. Besides, longing every time and wants to meet every day. Where there is a love letter, they will repeatedly read it. Love will inspire a poet when he/she composes his/her poetries. A love-drunk will tend to follow the sweetheart. Moreover, a lover is tended to favor everything favored by the sweetheart. Even if have to sacrifice and take all the risk it feels so beautiful, as long as to defend love.
Finally, the love feeling is natural and human being. Love in every part of us and it merely a drop from The Full of Love one. Actually Allah loves muttaqins and peoples who did goodness. Actually Allah loves peoples who repent and purifying their self…” the faithful people knows better how to manage their love so that won’t become a meaningless love. They frame their love with marital based only on Allah.
Anyone who had deep in faith would raise his or her love to Allah. And the mukmin, have a deepest love to Allah, that was Allah’s saying.
Thus, there are so many people wrong in posturing their feeling of love. Love, which supposed to be controlled, reversely controlling their self. Love, which supposed to be directed, reversely directing. Eventually their life is oscillated in a flaming of love without any direction and control. That is, if the appetite was playing there. And often we found that the brokenhearted left by the sweetheart can’t think anymore, never get closer to religion. So much people found have no want to married because the beloved one has left them. They consider that every man is the same as the one who left them. They promise not to married. Maybe they forget about the utterance of Rasul “Excluded of my members, anyone who doesn’t like married” because marrying is one of the Sunnah Rasul.
If this situation happened in anyone, really, he/she wasting a really big pleasure, even a very big energy, that can change life and world in useful.
My life is His permit
I supposed to devote Him, anything He gave to me
So strange when my love to Him is shared with others
Whereas, His pleasure, His love—for me is never shared
Stranger when heart become so restless, and anxient
Meanwhile His help is so close
Thanks for Ust. Wahid Ahmadi and Akhi Af for all the admonition. Hopefully, this admonition will be a remind for the one who forgeted.
Rabbana dholamna anfusana wailamtagfirlana watarhamna lana kunana minal khosirin.
Your sister In Islam,
Dina Istova
Last update : 12-01-2005 12:14
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